Curious about women? Questions to ask yourself
Written by Julien Lenaz, lead developer of cruush.
What draws you?
Is it a particular person, a feeling you have had for a while, or a sense that something is missing? You do not need a neat answer.
What do you want to find out?
- Whether you are attracted to women in person.
- What it is like to kiss or touch a woman.
- Whether you want a relationship or just an experience.
- Something you do not have words for yet.
How much do you want other people to know?
Your answer may be nobody. That is a real choice, and you can look for ways to meet people that fit it.
Who can you trust?
Think about whether there is one person you could tell, whether a friend, a counselor or a community group. You do not owe it to anyone, but it can help.
What pace feels right?
You can message for weeks before meeting, or you can meet for a coffee and see. You can also stop whenever you like.
You can change your mind
What you think now does not lock you in. You might find out you are straight, bisexual, queer or something else. Any of those is fine.