How to use cruush
Written by Julien Lenaz, lead developer of cruush.
Creating your account
Open cruush.app and tap Sign up. Enter your email, your date of birth and a password of at least 8 characters, then confirm the password. You have to be 18 or older, and you have to agree to the Terms of Service and the Privacy Policy. There is also an optional checkbox for product updates by email.
Tap Create Account. cruush sends you an email, so open it and verify your address, then sign in. If the email does not show up, use Resend verification email on the sign-in screen.
Setting up your profile
The first time you sign in, cruush walks you through a few steps. Tap Next rite to move on.
- Display Name is required and needs at least 2 characters. A profile photo is optional. Your face is optional too, and the photo can show you or your gear.
- Gender Identity and Sexuality are required, and you can choose from 1 to 3 of each. Pronouns are optional, up to 3. If you check I am trans, the T4T crowd becomes available.
- Crowds are optional. You can pick up to 3 from Dyke, Gay and T4T, or none. A crowd is a shared social space, like a gay or dyke bar, and it is not an identity label.
- Vibes are optional, up to 3.
- Two-factor authentication is optional. Tap Skip 2FA for now to set it up later in Settings.
- A step shows your invite link, with Share to contacts and Copy link.
- Last, you read and accept the Code of Conduct, then tap Enter cruush.
Finding your way around
Five buttons run along the bottom of the app: Map, Confessional, cruush, Messages and Profile. The cruush button opens the Cruushes screen.
Along the top of the map you will find cruush+, Carousel, Ghost Mode Settings, DL Mode settings, Settings and Notifications. Carousel opens as a full page.
The map
The map is the main screen. Each person is a heart-shaped pin with their photo in it, and pins close together group into a number bubble that you can tap to zoom in.
Tap a pin briefly to open that person's profile. On a touch screen, press and hold to make the pin and its details bigger. On a desktop, hover over a pin to see its details.
Map Controls is the button on the right. It holds Seeking, Visibility, Spots, a Pulse button, Center your location, and the zoom buttons.
Seeking and Visibility
These two sound alike, but they do opposite things. Seeking filters who you see. Visibility chooses who sees you.
In Seeking you can search names and tags, show cruushes at the top of the map, and filter by things like distance, age range, gender identity, presentation, crowds, body type, sexuality and what people are looking for.
In Visibility you can hide yourself from people who match a filter, such as people farther than a distance you pick, or people outside an age range. Crowd Mode limits who can see you to the crowds you choose. A Purgatory members switch hides you from members who are outside the service area. Accounts without cruush+ can use up to 3 hidden filters.
Your profile
Open the Profile tab and tap Edit Profile. The tabs are Photos, Badges, Basics, Intimacy and Health, and you tap Save when you are done.
- Photos: up to 4. You can choose which one is first. Photos can be SFW or NSFW, and you do not have to show your face.
- Basics: your bio, tags, a Signal of up to 35 characters, vibes, pronouns, gender identity, presentation, sexuality and body type. You can choose up to 3 sexuality labels.
- Your birth year is set when you sign up and cannot be changed. A Show my age checkbox controls whether your age is shown.
- Intimacy: relationship status, what you are looking for, position, role, availability, hosting and traveling, preferred spots, and kinks.
- Health: protections and boundaries.
- Badges: two small badges shown on your map heart, one on each side.
Sending a cruush
A cruush tells someone you are interested. Open their profile and tap cruush. If you change your mind, tap unsend, or uncruush if it was mutual. The message button next to it opens a chat.
When they send one back, you are a mutual cruush. The Cruushes screen has tabs for incoming, sent, mutual and views, so you can see who has cruushed you and who has looked at your profile.
Messages
Messages has tabs for All, Unread, Groups and Covens. Tap New message to start a chat with someone, create a group message, or create a Coven.
- Photos: tap Attach photo. Tick Send photo view once if you want it to open a single time.
- Disappearing timer: you can set messages in a chat to expire.
- Who can message you: open Message permissions and pick Public, Cruushes or Crowd.
- Groups: name the group and add people from your mutual cruushes.
Confessional
Confessional shows posts from people near you. Write in the box that says Share something with nearby people and tap Post. A Show distance on Confessional post switch controls whether your distance is shown.
- This post expires: Never expire is free. Choosing a custom time, from 30 minutes up to 30 days, needs cruush+.
- Who can see this post: Public and Cruushes are free. Posting to your Crowds needs cruush+.
- Photos (up to 3) and tags on a post need cruush+.
Confessional settings and filter
Open Confessional settings to choose how recent the posts you see are, from 1 hour up to 30 days. You can also hide your Confessional posts from Purgatory members, and choose who can open your map location from your posts: cruushes, the same crowd, public or nobody.
Confessional Filter lets you search tags, and show only posts from Mile High Club members or hide them. It has the same two choices for Purgatory members.
Spots and the Pink Book
Open Map Controls and tap Spots to see places around you. You can show or hide them on the map, filter them, and add a Spot of your own, which goes to a reviewer before anyone sees it.
On a Spot page you can rate the place, add details, and check in. Checking in lets you read the Pink Book, which is the board of posts for that Spot, and write your own.
Covens
Covens are groups with their own chat. Open Messages and choose the Covens tab. My Covens lists the ones you have joined, and Browse Covens lets you look around. Use the search field at the top of Messages to filter the list.
On a Coven page, tap Request to join, or Join Coven if it lets anyone in.
To start one, tap New message and choose Create Coven. Give it a name, add a short description if you like, and choose whether people need your approval to join. That switch is on by default. Creating a Coven posts a notice in Confessional.
Pulse
A Pulse is a way to say you are around. Open Map Controls and tap the Pulse button. You write a Signal first, then choose a radius of 1, 3, 5, 10, 15, 25 or 50 miles.
Your heart beats on the map for 30 minutes, and your Signal also posts to Confessional. Your pin does not move. Alerts go to your cruushes only, at most one every 4 hours. Accounts without cruush+ get one Pulse every 24 hours. Pulses do not work outside the service area.
Privacy settings
- Ghost Mode: open Ghost Mode Settings and switch it on. People see a decoy pin that moves around inside the radius you pick, from 500 feet up to 50 miles, while you still see your real position. A switch can show a line between your real and decoy pins on your own screen.
- Who can see my precise location: choose Public, Cruushes, or a crowd. You can switch each on or off, and Privacy Audit lets you review and revoke exact-location access.
- Map presence: in Settings, choose how long your pin stays on the map after you log off.
- DL Mode: replaces explicit images with plain gradients. You choose who is allowed to see your explicit images.
- Mile High Club: part of cruush+. It lets you drop your pin somewhere you are going. The pin lasts 24 hours and can be moved once every 3 hours. The place has to be inside the service area.
Outside the service area
cruush works in and around New York City, within about 100 miles of the city. If your phone's location is outside that area, you are a Purgatory member. This is based on where your phone is, not where you say you are.
- The Map tab is not shown. Confessional, cruush, Messages and Profile still work, and so do your existing chats.
- The map page shows a card about the open beta. It offers Turn on Mile High Club, Redeem free day, and a way to request a city.
- You cannot open anyone's map location, and Pulses are off, including in groups and Covens.
- A badge on your profile and your map pin marks you as a Purgatory member.
- Approximate location labels read Among sinners for people in the service area when you look from outside it, and Far far away for people outside it.
- A Mile High Club pin inside the service area gives you back normal map and Pulse access.
- cruush sends you an email when you enter Purgatory.
Staying safe
To block someone, open their profile and tap the block button. It takes effect right away, in both directions. You can undo it later from Settings, under Blocked users.
To report someone, tap the flag and choose a reason from the list. Reasons include Location spoofing, which is faking where you are. You can report a profile, a photo, a message, a conversation, a Confessional post, a Spot or a Pink Book post. A person reads every report.
Settings
- Notifications: push alerts, alert types, and quiet hours.
- Change email, Change password and Two-factor authentication.
- Accessibility: color vision, reduce motion, larger text, increase contrast and haptic feedback.
- Delete account: enter your password and type DELETE.
Getting help
Write to hello@cruush.app with questions. To report a bug or something broken, write to reports@cruush.app, or use the bug button in the app and say what you tapped and what happened.
Appendix: sections
Appendix: names in the app
- Bottom buttons: Map, Confessional, cruush, Messages, Profile. Map is not shown outside the service area.
- Top of the map: cruush+, Carousel, Ghost Mode Settings, DL Mode settings, Settings, Notifications.
- Map Controls: SEEKING, VISIBILITY, SPOTS, Send a Pulse, Center your location, Zoom in on map, Zoom out on map.
- Sheets: Seeking Filter, Visibility Controls, Spots, Confessional Filter, Confessional settings.
- Cruushes tabs: incoming, sent, mutual, views.
- Profile buttons: cruush, unsend, uncruush, message.
- Messages tabs: All, Unread, Groups, Covens. Covens views: My Covens, Browse Covens.
- New message menu: Start chat with someone, Create group message, Create Coven.
- Edit Profile tabs: Photos, Badges, Basics, Intimacy, Health.
- Signup and sign-in: Create Account, Sign In, Resend verification email, Send Reset Link.
- Onboarding: Next rite, Skip 2FA for now, Continue, Enter cruush.
- Confessional: Post, This post expires, Who can see this post.
- Safety and account: Block, Submit report, Delete account, Type DELETE.
- Mile High Club: Turn on Mile High Club, Drop my pin here, Move my pin here.
Appendix: limits at a glance
- Minimum age: 18.
- Password: at least 8 characters.
- Display Name: at least 2 characters.
- Profile photos: up to 4.
- Gender identity, sexuality, pronouns, crowds and vibes: up to 3 each.
- Signal: up to 35 characters.
- Confessional photos: up to 3, with cruush+.
- Hidden filters in Visibility without cruush+: up to 3.
- Pulse: lasts 30 minutes. Radius of 1, 3, 5, 10, 15, 25 or 50 miles. One every 24 hours without cruush+. Alerts to cruushes at most once every 4 hours.
- Ghost Mode radius: 500 feet, 0.25, 0.5, 1, 3, 5 or 50 miles.
- Mile High Club pin: lasts 24 hours, can be moved once every 3 hours, must be inside the service area.
- Service area: about 100 miles around New York City.
Appendix: words the app uses
- A cruush: a way to say you are interested in someone. A mutual cruush is when they send one back.
- Signal: a short line on your profile, up to 35 characters, that goes out with a Pulse.
- Crowd: a shared social space, like a gay or dyke bar. The crowds are Dyke, Gay and T4T.
- Confessional: posts from people near you.
- Coven: a group with its own chat that people can ask to join.
- Pulse: a heartbeat on the map that lasts 30 minutes.
- Ghost Mode: showing a decoy pin instead of your real one.
- Dark Room: browsing the map without appearing on it, with cruush+.
- DL Mode: replacing explicit images with plain gradients.
- Mile High Club: moving your pin to a place you are going, with cruush+.
- Pink Book: the board of posts for a Spot.
- Purgatory: members whose phone location is outside the service area.