Cruising etiquette
Written by Julien, lead developer of cruush.
What are the basics?
- Be clear about what you want, and take a no as a no.
- Do not send photos nobody asked for.
- Reply or say you are not interested. Silence is fine, but a short no is kinder.
- Do not argue with someone who has turned you down.
How should you treat privacy?
- Never screenshot or share a profile or a chat.
- Do not out anyone, ever.
- Do not ask where someone works or lives.
- Let people decide whether you see their face.
What about meeting up?
- Turn up on time, or say you are late.
- Cancel early if you are not coming.
- Respect the limits you agreed on.
- Let people leave without an explanation.
What about health?
Talk about protection and testing before you start. It is part of being considerate.
What if someone breaks the rules?
Block them and report them. On cruush, blocking is on their profile and takes effect immediately. A person reads every report.