How to say no on a cruising app
Written by Julien Lenaz, lead developer of cruush.
You do not owe an explanation
A no does not need a reason. You can say you are not interested, not tonight, or not after you have thought about it. Giving a reason can invite an argument.
Short ways to say it
- Thanks, but I am not feeling it.
- I am going to pass, but I hope you have a good night.
- Not tonight for me.
If you want to stop replying
You can stop answering. Some people prefer a quick message first, because it is kinder than silence. Either choice is yours.
If they keep going
Say it once more, clearly. If they push, stop replying and block them. On cruush, blocking is on their profile and takes effect immediately.
If it is more than rude
Threats, repeated messages after a block, or anything that scares you should be reported. On cruush, reporting sits next to the block button, and a person reads each report.